Forró: How to Find a Partner

Forró is a passionate and beautiful dance that comes from Brazilian traditions. Amazing combinations of movements and tender, sensual motifs create a subtle, elusive thread between performers, mentally connecting them during the dance. As you may have guessed, forró is performed by a pair: a man and a woman. The dance describes the relationship between partners, which is difficult to express in words.

If you have decided to learn forró, you must take the choice of a dance partner seriously, as this style requires one. Many think finding a suitable dancer is easy, but it's not quite true. There are common problems encountered in such searches. We offer recommendations for choosing a forró partner to help you quickly and accurately find "the one."

What to Consider First?

Of course, you first need a partner meeting a few "standard" criteria. Remember, if you plan to perform on stage or compete, these aspects must be strictly followed. So, definitely find a partner in the appropriate age group.

In ballroom dancing, there are usually four main classifications: children (up to 11), juniors (11-15), youth (16-20), adults (19+), seniors (35+). Also consider the partner's height (man should be taller than woman) and skill level. Try to choose a dancer with more experience to keep developing and improving your skills.

Secondary Aspects

So, you found a partner who fully meets the above criteria. But don't think the search is over. You might still have made a mistake. The person who fits "physically" may not fit "mentally." For example, you might not get along in personality or simply not like them for some reason.

It's very important that your dance partner becomes (or initially is) a good acquaintance, friend, or even romantic partner, because people on the same wavelength will surely work well together. In partner dancing, as in any collaborative project, mutual respect and understanding play a big role. You should also feel comfortable with this person. Forró is quite an open and even intimate dance, so the partner should not embarrass you and certainly not be unpleasant.

Where and How to Find a Partner?

There are several ways to find potential dance partners. First, suggest partnering with friends or acquaintances: it's possible someone in your circle is willing to dance forró or learn it (you might not even know). If no candidates appear, take other measures. If you already attend a dance school or studio, try to find a partner there or at other dance venues.

You can also attend forró events and festivals (or ballroom dancing ones), where you might find a partner. Finally, the most convenient way is to post an ad online on relevant websites. Remember to include information about yourself based on standard criteria (see above), as well as a bit about your interests, goals, and expectations.